the business of friends

You know how I mentioned in a previous post that people annoy me? I reiterate that statement. Some people just REALLY take the biscuit! S & B, mentioned in previous post if you have no idea what I’m talking about, are being all b*tchy and stuff. They’ve stopped inviting me to go out with them and I garner it’s because I didn’t want to go out with them that one time. How immature is that?

I mean, ever since B and I were friends I’ve ALWAYS gone to her house every Monday as it was sort of “tradition” for me to crash at her place, we’d order take away, chat the night away and watch Glee and Tool Academy and she’d make me watch Hollyoaks, which despite it being mildly interesting I wouldn’t watch on a daily basis. But these past two Mondays, it just hasn’t happened because she’s been over at S’s house. Okay, that’s nice but it would be nice if you invited me along. You may think that I might say no but it’s NICE to ask, you know?

I probably sound like a right jealous cow, right now. I don’t care because I’m just majorly pissed off with these turn of events. The two of them always hang around together now and whenever I’m around them I feel like the odd one out because they’re always talking about something that happened the previous night and I wasn’t there, so when I have nothing to say they’re all like, “What’s up?” UH, hello?! It’s not like you’re including me in your conversation, anyway, is it?

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You know, what? I actually have other friends on the course, anyway. So, I don’t know why I’m bothering to be pissed off? I mean, B does know other people on the course but she doesn’t interact with them – she’s the sort of person who’ll just pick a few select friends and that’s it – she won’t even bother to get to know the other people. Whereas, I’m the sort of person who likes to make friends with everybody. I know all the people course and I wouldn’t necessarily say I’m friends with all of them but I’ve really good conversations with most of them and actually taken the time to get to know them better. S, on the other hand, only know me & B. :< I mean, just the other day, two girls in my group and I were sitting in McDonalds and we ending up staying there for several hours talking about EVERYTHING. I found out that she followed her boyfriend to England from Romania. Sounds crazy, right? They've split up now and she severely regrets are decision because she misses her mother like crazy. Ah, man. I don't think I could follow my boyfriend to another country just because he said so. Of course, who knows? Because I may be really in love and that would cloud my vision. Bah. The other girl, I found out, just lives in the next town over from me in London. Such a small world and we had so much fun explaining how blooming hectic it is in Peckham. The Romanian girl was like, "I need to see this place for myself!". Haha.

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But, don't you feel that if you have more friends then you open yourself up to more opportunities? I think that's what I'm trying to say; I'm not sure how to put it… I mean if one friend ends up being a bitch then at least you'll have other friends - at the moment, it seems S & B only have each other. Oh well, that's their business anyway.. Voting has begun on my icon contest – be sure to vote!

Chynna x



  1. March 10, 2011 / 12:33 pm

    I read your previous post. I wish I could be taught copyright laws in school, because I really want to know a lot about them. Especially being an author and everything. >.< Its complicated, even when you're just talking about pictures to create a layout from. I try to always credit when I use something, but there are times when I don't find the source, and I feel bad about it. Sometimes, though, people sue authors or producers just to gain publicity. Somebody sued Stephenie Meyer for Breaking Dawn because she claimed that a couple of scenes had the same setting as her novel. A huge commotion was created, but it was mainly for gathering attention. I hate it when people do that. Why can't they just take no for an answer? If I don't want to do something, I don't. My friends usually don't do that, but sometimes they do. They'd keep pushing me and in the end I give in because I know they want me to that thing so bad. I am not a party animal. Usually, I don't like parties. I'd rather stay at home, listen to music or read a good book. However, sometimes everyone feels like going out once in a while. Pretty jacket. What do you mean, "In your effort be a girl?" Lol, that made me laugh. I am not a typical girly girl and I don't wear jewelry either. It itches. Now, on your current post. I don't think you sound like a jealous cow. You're entitled to your opinion. And to your friends. She followed her boyfriend to England? Wow. -- I know, I know, even I don't like pointing out the bad points of a book I liked, overall. Recently, I was writing a review of a book I read and LOVED. So, I looked up what other people had to say about it, and some critics pointed out very bad things which I hadn't minded. So when I re-read the book again, those bad things kept going through my mind and spoiled the whole book. This is why I am very careful while writing reviews.

  2. March 11, 2011 / 7:20 pm

    (This is incredibly random but I immediately thought of Serena and Blair from Gossip Girl when you said S & B. lol)

    There’s probably something bothering them which is making them forget/ignore you. I’m not making excuses for them, though, just trying to determine what they’re thinking. Maybe they were hurt that you didn’t want to hang out with them before? Or maybe they’re afraid that, since you’re good at making friends, you’ll leave them. Either way, it’s good for all three of you to just sit down and air out the problems and talk about it. Or this will just get worse and you might lose them as friends.

    I agree with you about making friends. But, unlike you, they might be more uncomfortable around people?

  3. March 12, 2011 / 1:59 am

    What is with these people?! Its common courtesy to ask someone to come along whether or not they want to go or something. I mean, again; common courtesy. There must be something up with them. For your friend just not to invite you out of the no where is weird! :O What if she saw your blog?!

    If you feel that you can`t interact with them swiftly, then don`t bother. You have better friends! You know people who are generally better people than them! πŸ™‚ Don`t take this too hard against yourself because its unnecessary!

    I hate it when things goes wrong with relationships. I mean, for her to follow her boyfriend and then splitting up isn`t worth it D:!

    Always open yourself for more opportunities :)! For friends. What if someone turns out to be a generally bad person or a person with bad mortalities? what now? Thats always the case P!

    I thought my layout looked more summerish because of the “warm” colors :P! I like bright layouts. πŸ˜› But I`m always trying to find ways to have differentiation around the blog D:!

    Take care :P!

  4. March 12, 2011 / 2:19 pm

    Wow. What a bitch. You don’t sound like a jealous cow at all, in fact I totLly get what you mean because recently this friend of mine is being a bitch too. She doesn’t invite me anywhere anymore! She just invites all the boys that have recently joined our group somewhere instead of me just because my parents sometimes don’t let me go out. But no she oddest understand that. The thing is also she has a freaking boyfriend but is flirting with her others friends boyfriend not to mention my EX. LIKE WHAT THE F.


  5. March 12, 2011 / 11:04 pm

    For a second, I was like “wahhhh, she changed her layout? It’s nice!” Then I remembered you had already changed it last time I was here πŸ™‚ hehe

    It really is such an entertaining sport! and with that image/thought of men groping each other, try watching Invictus. I DARE YOU. i couldn’t stop laughing the whole movie!

    about S&B – you’ve solved your own problem. sometimes a friendship can only last so long, and despite all the work that you’ve put into it, there’s not a whole lot you can do. My advice, since you seem to be like me, is to hang out with them less, and with other poeple more.

    I’m exactly the same as you – I like knowing/interacting with everyone. One of my closest friends, however, doesn’t. I found that this year I haven’t spent a lot of time with anyone outside my close group of friends, which is a shame because I always used to hang out with the other “groups” and now I don’t. but i’ve changed (in the last few weeks). I now make time for everyone πŸ™‚

    And what they’re doing is stupid. If you want to be included, because sometimes holding onto and fihgting for a friendship is worth it, then invite them over to your house next monday…

  6. March 13, 2011 / 5:13 am

    I’ve never heard of the book, Let The Right One In. What’s it about? :p

  7. March 14, 2011 / 4:45 pm

    Thank you. I agree, she doesn’t need autotune to make her sound good. Yeah, I don’t think it’s very popular but I heard it on radio one and shes only 14! I was like, wow:P

    I hope your friend situation sorts itself out soon(yn) I hate it when stuff like that happens to me. I am abit like you, I have a group of close friends but like you said I try to make friends with everybody so if stuff like that happens I know I have at least one other person I can talk to. I don’t understand why you friends are doing that to you, it doesn’t seem fair :/

  8. March 14, 2011 / 7:41 pm

    Lol don’t worry, it isn’t a lecture. I completely agree with every word you said:)

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