I just find you annoying.

*A wild Mutay appears*

You kind of have to watch my newest vlog, to understand why I’m writing about this after all this time.

For regular readers of my blog, you may already know this story but for those that don’t know – I’ll start from the beginning.

When I first started university, I got my first serious boyfriend. When I say serious, I mean I actually brought him home to meet my parents. Now for some people that may not be a big deal, but for me it is because my parents are pretty strict. Anyway, my mum was pretty cool with it and my dad – well, he’s just overprotective is all I’m going to say but he didn’t do anything, so.

Anyway, we dated for almost a year and that I got news that I got onto a study trip to go to China. (Side story: I went to China for nearly 5 months with a bunch of other people from my university. It bloody amazing!) We decided that we should move in together for the next year of uni because you know, at the time it was pretty serious and so, when I came back from China I’d have somewhere to stay as well.

Unfortunately, what I didn’t expect was for him to dump me the day before I flew off to China. I was pretty devastated at the time because seriously, who likes getting dumped? For the first couple of weeks in China, I held up but I was secretly hurting like a motherb*tch inside. He kept emailing me during this time, so that made matters worse. Sure, I get that he wanted to be friends but it was too soon – and I don’t think you can immediately become friends with your ex like nothing happened between the two of you. After about a month, I got an email from Mutay saying that he got a new girlfriend. It was the first time I had cried in a month, and it was in front of my roommate so I was very embarrassed. Still, it was nice to have somewhere there to comfort me and during this state of distress I may have sent a very angry email.

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I get that he doesn’t have to tell me jacksh*t because we weren’t going out anymore, but where the hell is the respect?

He kept coming off as patronising in his emails, as well, so I used to never reply to them or reply really late. Also, he kept questioning me about my religion like it was any of his business. Then all of a sudden he turns around and proclaims he is now Catholic. He had always believed in God and Jesus but he’d always said that he didn’t like the teachings of the Catholic, and how it was all stuffy and boring, etc. I just left him to his own business, because really it’s not mine.

After an exchange of angry emails, he decided to call me out on the fact that I was too immature in the relationship and that I was always on my phone, etc. That is /not/ true. I’m sorry that me watching TV shows all the time and liking f*cking Lego wasn’t mature enough for you. I had the impression that you’d accepted that part of me from the beginning. Everyone that knows me, KNOWS that I am the biggest TV fanatic – it doesn’t matter what it is; kids TV, crime dramas, drama, etc. I will watch it.

Anyway, we haven’t spoke that much since we split up and apparently he’s already been with 3 girls since me. He also keeps talking to Mutay. The only problem I have with this is the fact that they were never really friends when we were dating in the first place. Mutay is thoroughly confused as to why he keeps bugging her as well – he kept asking her to meet up for coffee or go iceskating, etc. I’m not saying he liked her like that, but you do not move to your ex’s best friend like that. It’s weird.

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When Mutay commented that he got a new girlfriend, he actually texted back “No point in wasting time. What’s it to you, anyway?” Mutay didn’t mean anything by it, it was just an offhand comment. What time are you wasting? You’re 22 – it’s not like you’re getting old. Jeeze.

So, yeah – that’s the more coherent version. I may have been slightly tipsy toward the end of that vlog – I had a Tiki Tai from Hard Rock Café and it was freaking massive. Yet, tasty. Mmmm.

Ask me some questions, so I can answer them in my next vlog!

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5 Comments

  1. August 13, 2012 / 4:40 pm

    Thanks for your comment. I watched your vlog; it was funny. I know Mutay! Well not literally, I know her blog we’ve read each others before, she sent me a nice message about my A-Levels.

    We have hybrid buses, not that i’m from somewhere far away (Manchester) haha. I haven’t seen a gold bus before though o.O

    Michael 🙂

  2. August 14, 2012 / 8:54 pm

    LOL. “Little kids are sometimes cute… SOMETIMES.” hahaha.
    Ugh, I wish I had your guys’ accents. 🙁 Oh wells. You’ll hear my American one soon! But it depends on where you’re from in the states.
    What’s the legal drinking age there? 😮

    And your ex (I almost wrote “next,” oops!) sounds like a giant douchemonkey… or a giant pussy as you put it haha.
    Maybe he’s talking to Mutay to get to know what you’re doing? Like a secret stalker, ick.

  3. August 14, 2012 / 9:00 pm

    Oh, and my questions for your next vlog:
    1. This isn’t a question… but can you say my name? I want to hear what it sounds like with your accent LOL.
    2. What is your favorite “American” food?
    3. I remember you saying you were half Filipino? Correct me if I’m wrong lol. My memory’s shit. But can you speak Tagalog? Or understand it at all?

  4. August 15, 2012 / 7:23 pm

    Hello there Muttayyyyy! :)) she didn’t talk muchhhh. make her talk more Chynna! lol

    About your ex? he need to back the f*ck off. hello! is he insane. dang that. I hate guys like that. It doesn’t make sense at all. Who do they think they are? PRETTY BOY?

    oh btw, i kinda notice the drink got you a lil bit tipsy haha!

  5. August 16, 2012 / 7:07 pm

    I love how you’re vlogging from the bus. You’re lucky for being able to drink outdoors legally. I want a shots glass too! I told my friends to buy me one & I’ll drink soft drinks for now XD. You’re not alone when it comes to cursing around children :(. And wow, your meal looks delicious ;D.

    Oooh I remember the story :/. This whole thing is just plain ridiculous. No one likes getting dumped (unless you’re the one who wanted it to happen). No one can simply be friends after breaking up in a relationship. Even in my relationship before this more than a year ago, I wanted a break up for personal reasons. We ended up deleting each other from facebook & blocked all contact. It is awesome when you have people there to comfort you. For him to even call you out like that is just plain pathetic. You deserve better, and look at you now! You’re on top of the world, ruling it with Mutay ;D!

    For him to even e-mailing you after the split is just out of the world. Be glad that you both split up. With an attitude he has… Wow -__-.

    I’m actually happy in a relationship for once! *claps like a 10 year old*. I never really liked the guys I dated before… I just said yes… So I can fit in with everyone else. :o. But this one’s something different ^__^. I’m so lame XD.

    I didn’t even bother finishing up my goals list. Most of them are laaaame anyways!!!

    Ooooh! I got a free shirt from the blood drive that my friend donated blood in. I feel bad because I didn’t earn it :/. But oh well!

    Here’s my “gangster writing” http://colorfulistic.net/x/2012/08/IMG-20110601-00300.jpg .. XD! I didn’t like this guy so I didn’t give a crap about what I wrote :X.

    Take care ;D

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