Girls are confusing creatures.

In which I try to deny that I am jealous is any way, sort or form.

Girls confuse me. When they do something utterly stupid, it usually elicits this reaction,

and a, “Really, bitch?”

So, say you’re in a relationship with this guy and then you break up. And now you’re in a new relationship but you’re still on this guy’s dick (figuratively, of course). 1. What sort of message is that sending to your ex? 2. How do you think your current boyfriend feels? 3. It is simply not fair to other girls who want a shot at your ex but can’t because your ex is still holding some sort of flame for you because you’re still around.

I’m not sayingyou can’t be friends with your ex but mixed signals are not the one. Personally, I don’t think you can be friends with your ex. For me, you can be like, “Hi, how are you?” once in a while if the split was amicable but you can never truly go back to that stage where you were friends before you got together. There’s history there. There’s too much tension, whether it be sexual or awkward. Basically, it’ll never be the same.

Girls confuse me. They can be so selfish, sometimes. Annoying. Loud. Rude. Or am I just talking about me, now? Ha.

Did I tell you I got paid on Tuesday? £200 in my bank account making it look slightly healthier than it was. Had to put some aside because Mutay and I have decided we are going to Portugal in September. I was also able to afford some nice Versace perfume for my mum’s birthday (I got a free bottle with it, as well :D). There are so many things I need to buy and do, and summer is nearly finished. It’s less than 2 months until Mutay and I move in together and go back to university. Aaaah.

5 Comments

  1. July 22, 2012 / 9:35 pm

    lol us females are more complicated i suppose compared to guys in certain things. i guess to each their own. but i agree, if you break it off with your boyfriend, it will never be the same.

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  2. July 23, 2012 / 3:51 am

    I don’t understand how anyone (guys or girls, they all act the same a lot of them time) could lead someone on, while they had a boyfriend. You’re messing with 2 people’s feelings. When my ex is an ex, they stay an ex. I don’t want anything to do with them. Unless they’ve broken up with me out of the blue for no apparent reason, but that’s never happened haha.

    I’m only friends with one of my ex’s and him and my current boyfriend get along great. But it’s been like over 5 years since we were together and it was never serious.

  3. July 23, 2012 / 9:57 am

    I guess we girls are really sometimes confusing. I mean, I ain’t comfortable about my boyfriend being friends with their ex. but I’ll be cool about me being friends with my ex. haha! girl, i’m crazy and I know it. but not totally like me and my ex can hang out. and honestly? if we feel so hurt about our boyfriend sending their ex’s a messages? it’s triple the pain to them when they see us communicating with our ex. Ego, pride and everything of them is on the line. Plus def. the love that they have for us. they feel like that ex still has something that can take us away from them. so yeah.

    and about suits? sad to say, i’d have to wait till some dvd’s comes out here in the Philippines lol. because my connection kinda sucks when it comes to downloading. so yeah. and please please say Hello to mutay from me. haha! I know her and she’s been telling me good things about you. She used to blog back then. Tell her Cher/Elaine says hi. and I know your her bestfriend. im also gonna be sending her messages about us finding each others blog. <3

  4. July 24, 2012 / 12:05 am

    Yeah, I don’t think you can ever truly be friends with an ex after you break up, either. You’re right — there’s history there, and it’s awkward no matter what happens. P: My ex did that to me… He got with me as a rebound… His ex still loved him, he loved her, he dumped me, got back with his ex… You know what? She cheated on him, and then he came crawling back to me. The bad thing is that he must have thought/expected me to be one of those girls with THAT kind of low self-esteem to realize exactly what he’d done. Pft. It’s not just girls who do that apparently. Wonderful, right? >.>

    Congrats on getting paid. ^^

  5. July 24, 2012 / 6:49 am

    Yeah, I spent a lot of time shopping and walked a lot and carried lots of shopping bags. It caused me to have temporary phobia of shopping after my skin care products haul.

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